Forward, that is a fair enough question. My stitch is a lot like other folks on here, my XW left me with 2 little kids, same old song and dance, new life, blah, blah. I was like everyone else, scared, confused, mad. I filed for the D and moved on when I realized that I was wasting my life on someone who no longer cared for me. I have since moved on in a big way, I am engaged to a wonderful woman who I have been seeing for awhile. My purpose for being on this board is to try to help others move on and not waste their lives on people who are just stringing them along. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against people who stand, but there comes a time when you have to look at moving on. When you have stood and did everything you can, what else is left? I merely told you earlier and have told you in the past that you did all you could and then some, but your XH hasn't budged. He might be unhappy, his relationship with the OW might not last, but these people will not do the work to rebuild. I haven't seen a single person on this board leave the OP and come home. I have seen touch and goes, but nothing stable. I am sure there are a couple who have, but its so very rare. Anyway, its your life to lead as you wish, I am just trying to save you further misery.
