Of course, what I'm wondering is if I need to reach out to W just a little. From my point of view, we've done almost nothing to save the M. Still, I understand what you are saying, she is likely motivated by guilt, cake-eating, need for me in her life as friend. And I don't want to be her friend outside of a M.
Even as I type this, I know I've read these same words time and again from others here. Still, it's hard to get my mind around it for myself.
Hi friend. YOU cannot fix HER. She has to want to change for the better, just like she has to want to work on the M.Keep the door open, but SHE has to walk through it.
