WS's brother (who she lives with) works at the same place I do, except I'm in Admin and he's a process worker (Big Food Manufacturer).
When W came to get her stuff from the house after I set my boundary BIL came with her to help. Haven't seen either of them since.
Anyway I heard his motorbike coming in to work today and just had to walk across the road to the Factory as he was parking. As soon as he saw me he almost ran to get into the place and away from me, never said a word.
I just calmly walked in, suitably attired in my business gear, and sporting my new fancy specs that I've only had for a week (which might I say make me look rather special). He was watching me the whole time and trying to hide it. No doubt this 'discovery' on his part will make it's way back to WW fairly quickly.
This is a complete 180 for me. I'm one of those people who hate Doctors, Dentists or anything like that. For me to go get my eyes tested and actually BUY let alone WEAR the glasses is a huge turnaround. And as often happens in those situations, once you do it you wonder why the hell you didn't do it years ago.
Proud of myself I am.
Last edited by blownaway65; 01/25/1003:38 AM.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010