Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[MHL]

mb28,
How are you doing? I will slide over to your thread in a minute, I saw that you started here in separated, welcome.

Last night was fun, but I would rather go on a social date where there are no expectations for either party. But dating is not a priority right now, I am the priority. I want to further explore a job change with more money which will add some self security for me and the kids. I want to focus on my D13 and get her the help she needs to come to terms with what her Mom has done and is doing. I want to spend quality time with my son and make sure our connection is good before anything else happens with my sitch, whether it is reconciliation, the big D, and or dating on my part.

I am not trying to put too much on my plate as I tend to get overwhelmed but I now know I can handle much more than I ever thought possible. If I keep my W out of my mind, I can focus more energy on other things.