Yes - that's exactly what I was getting at. Who we are creates our experiences. The good news is we can change if we don't like the xperiences we are currently having.
Like in Captains case - those personal attributes that have contributed to a sslife are (in my view) really good personal attributes, but they are contributing to a lack of balance manifest in his ssm. He can either keep those attributes and accept a sexless life or make changes to get more balance in his life.
What about you SSMG?
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
