through all the fog i have had for the past 3 years and with one question to h something has become extremely clear. i'm in total disbelief and don't want to believe it but wow.
i asked h what he wants, he said papers to get a normal job so he can support me and the kids.
that was an extremely loaded answer but probably the most honnest he has ever been. people don't worry, i'm not going to sponsor him to be in the united states, u just never thought that he would use me to get legal status in the united states.
makes sense though y he would want to dodge process servers and y he would never file for divorce. he needs to be married to get work permits be allowed to stay in united states. wow is all i keep saying.
i kept saying he is the world's stupidest h, but i am worse then that to be fooled for over 3 years. i just told him, gee guess you should have treated me better, because i'm not doing anything with immigration on his behalf.
WOW!!!
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline