Maybe rather than invite her, let her invite herself.

If in conversation she happens to hear about your plans with the kids and expresses interest, let her know that she's welcome to come. But don't invite her out of the blue. That way she still sees you as being friendly but not needing her to come along with whatever you've planned.

Just a thought.


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