blownaway65,
If I could expose my H affair, it would defiantly make a difference I think. He is one of those people who does worry about what all are friends and family think about him. Moreover, if it’s with the 22 year old that I think it is, it would make him look very bad. In addition, I would plan to be very nice, and telling everyone that “Yes, I could forgive him, if he decides to work on our M”. That would make his affair even more looked down on by everyone. I’m not sure if that is the right thing to do or not.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10