lostnotgone,
Good job on the 180. Remember to write this down with the date, so you can look back to see a positive sign. I know I tend to dwell on the negative interactions with my H, so it's nice to have away to go back and see what created a positive encounter.

Keep it up, we are pulling for you.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10