-very little contact. -finances are pretty much separate. Joint account used to pay bills only. She's not stealing money anymore. Though she walks around telling the boys that "mom's broke." -I've gone on some coffee/drink dates lately to get my mind elsewhere. It helps short term but it feels weird. Not sure of my stance on dating while separated. I know I have a clear conscience, but I am also noticing that it can add undue stress to my life if I let it (scheduling, drama, etc) -havent heard anything from lawyers since last time. Dunno if that is good or bad. She doesn't seem to be in a hurry to get rid of me. -Zoloft-been on it for almost three weeks now I think. Noticeable difference in mood.
I think I need help with balancing meeting her needs with detaching. I know she is telling people she feels very alone.
