He said he is done!!

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He was very quiet when he picked them up - but when he came back to drop the kids off I did the same thing smiled - asked how the afternoon was - we even laughed together... WOW !!

We took a few minutes to discuss the finances and the kids and that went well too. He has been staying with him mother - but he has rented a house (not to far away - about 2 miles) and moves in 2 weeks. I keep calm - took a deep breathe and told him that I accepted what he needed to do.

I am finding that there are so many people going through the same thing or very similar - the support has been great - just having someplace to get my feelings out with the actions you receive from family and friends.

He is coming over again tomorrow to do some things around the house - keeping up the 180!!