mb28, sorry to say, but if you suspect an A then you are most likely right.

I thought there was no way in the world my WAW could do that to me, but yeah I was way wrong.

Took me weeks to get the opportunity to look at her Mobile once my suspicions were aroused (their texting gave it away). Then I looked up OM's address and drove by to confirm - yep she was there.

Finding out is sooooooooooooo very hard, and it made me think "what a fool I had been" to think she couldn't do that to me. But then I don't imagine that WAS's spend too much time and effort in thinking how us LBH's are feeling.

I also feel that most WAS's in A's do the cake eating thing. It's fine for them to be off committing adultery, but they still want to know that you're still there as a backup.

I'm guessing that our sitches are very similar once you uncover A, particularly with kids & house issues.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010