Yea, same here. I dont think anything would have changed in my sitch if I chose to stay, the W would have gotten an apartment because she was sick of living with her friend. Things would have gotten worse because I "didnt care what she wanted". At least I can say I tried by doing it her way...
You can say you tried plus some, thats how I look at it. Your W wont realize what she had till its gone.
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D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10