hmmmm....my H actually IS a canadian. i know he values his independence fiercely. i admit i haven't been as accepting of his need to "spread his wings" as i vowed that i would be. and for that i have apologized.

we live in a tiny one bedroom apt, less than 700 sq ft. he has been sleeping on the pull out couch, and i have always let him know he is more than welcome to be here, and that he could sleep in the bed if he ever wanted and i'd sleep on the couch (it folds out to a twin. he's 6'3. i'm 5'3!) i have done my best to make him feel comfortable here since the bomp dropped...made him dinners, talked to him about things other than our M, packed lunches for him to take to work...

of course i wouldn't care if he lost the money and i would also move in to his new place with him in a second...if he ever asked.

my H read one book on ADHD back when he was diagnosed but he never picked up another one and i doubt i could get him to read DB.


Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless