what does that REALLY mean?

[trytryagain]

my H has said on multiple occasions that he feels separation is what's best for both of us, because in the long run, ultimately we will both be happier this way. why do people say this to one another? and what does it even mean to say, i think it will be easier to start our lives over, break up the life we've built together, put ourselves in financial jeopardy, wear this hurt on our hearts for the rest of our lives and move on, than to commit to making our marriage work, forgive one another, and move forward?

anyone else dealing with "it's best for us in the long run?" it's not even, i love you but i'm not in love with you. that would be better than this ambiguous line!