Hi-jack away...it was an interesting discussion.

My W's parents are D so she has been through this before, and she did not have a good childhood. Her father was physically abusive and her mother was verbally abusive. They were not completely dysfunctional but, she never gave me the impression it was a very happy family life. My family life growing up on the other hand was the polar opposite...parents have been together for 55 years.

I wonder of this large disparity in family types, or maybe even family values, has anything to do with where we are today, hard to say.


Me41 W43
M9 T13
S8 D6
Bomb 1/4/08
EA Discovery 7/10/08
S 6/13/09
2nd EA/PA Discovery 7/15/09 (same guy)
D-Day 3/8/10