He refuses to "see" the obvious things she's said. Like "my H is a drinker and gets violent" "I am afraid he will come after us". Everyone who knows him, has never seen this behavior from him and when A was exposed, his reply was "I don't want to hear anymore, I am done with her." I thought H was smarter than all this.....
My W told OM that I beat her ... yes, the man who never ever lifted his hand to his W suddenly became a violent man.
Newmama, did you mention this is in the AoS - sympathy?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
