i re-read "love must be tough" by dobson till 2 am. Good stuff. I need some guidance...Should i tell w to leave, in other words go dark. I've been a pretty good plan A "mr. nice guy". But respect for self is utmost and only then can others (including wife) respect me. Or , do i set a boundary or boundaries . The wording is important . Please help friends. I'll check in later tonite.
