BH, Yes, I think I was thrown a few crumbs, and while I recognize the crumbs for what they are (crumbs), that doesn't mean that I don't have a little emotional pull there.

While you advise, I find myself wondering what your sitch was and why YOU are on here. Have you moved on?

I mean, it's one thing to tell someone such things but even if you know it's the right advice, sometimes you don't feel it yet. That's just part of the deal. You have to feel something, not just think it, not just be told it.

Snodderly, I've sat quietly for a long time. I know that a career change needs to be part of the picture for me. It's a tough time to consider; things are so uncertain for my industry right now; it is just crazy and stressful.

I am not sure what else I am looking for; I feel that a little dating might be interesting for me at this time. I guess I don't want to be in a situation where I woul d hurt someone else, but I think I have been pretty straightforward at this point.

I thrive on determination and intelligence, grin, but the emotional aspects of this whole experience cannot be solved with determination and intelligence. That takes time and some self-awareness.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D