I am tempted to send it to OW (via H) thanking her for the loan! Even then, H would refuse to see the manipulation. He refuses to "see" the obvious things she's said. Like "my H is a drinker and gets violent" "I am afraid he will come after us". Everyone who knows him, has never seen this behavior from him and when A was exposed, his reply was "I don't want to hear anymore, I am done with her." I thought H was smarter than all this.....
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread