OP-I think my will listen to the C however, I think he is looking for a breakthrough of some kind. Not sure if he will get there or not...in the meantime, he says he no interest in ADs unfortunately.
peace-I can't tell you how much this all tears at my soul. It still hurts to know my H loves me but still chooses to stay away. I sometimes have difficulty getting my mind around why things are the way they are. In time maybe we could be friends but would be far too painful right now. I wish your situation had not been the nightmare it has been but, at least be grateful that your H made it easier for you to move on in some ways. Either way, it is all painful.
snodderly-I, too, hope and pray that my H is willing to do the work to get back on track. Only time will tell. I have not heard from him since our talk. My H has told me numerous times that you can't depend on anyone else for your happiness. I believe that is part of the reason he is staying away now. He needs to figure this out on his own now. I was feeling better about things yesterday but today I am hurting again for some reason. I wish this feeling would go away. It is just hard to understand why someone who loves you and wants to be with you still chooses to stay away.
