Whatnow, sorry about the comment about OW visiting the house...I accidentally got you confused with another poster!

So are there areas you neglected during your marriage that you can improve? And I bet your WH won't continue to ignore the kids. Have they let him know they miss him?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004