I don't think that H can support 2 households, so this is not a sustainable situation.
So if you stay on the present course and do nothing. What is going to happen?
I thought about going to a L, but decided not to. I had an agreement to use a mediator with my wife plus there aren't any costs (in my province it is free at my income level). I figured that whatever we can't work out might go to a lawyer next, but for now as long as W was being fair, I wasn't going to jump on that band wagon.
Still, OldPilot has got a point. Many lawyers will meet you for a 30 minute meeting. Can you hold back the tempation to tell him you went to a L? If my W went, I imagine I would feel angry and worried that I might be jumped on and end off paying something almost as punitive damages for being a male! I would get myself to L, too.
I wonder if those who got lawyers felt that it was one nail into the coffin?
