OK I didn't know if you wanted to analyze why she said
"process of divorce" but let's see here:
-you can be in the "process" between now and 2011, right? She might consider the process having started with the separation. (My WH could be telling people we are in process of D too)
-others may be wondering about her and you and why she is with OM so she can make it look better by changing her status to process of D
-does she know you are on facebook? she could also be posting that to piss you off
-she really is starting the process of divorce but you won't know until you get papers, correct?
I am happy for you to get away! What will your D think? Do people often drive 100 miles to see each other on the weekends over there? Maybe the traffic isn't so bad in the country, right?

Last edited by newmama; 01/24/10 03:33 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004