Thanks Sandi...I will continue to stick to my guns. SHe is moving to her parents under the pretense of not being able to find work here which is true,,,but the nderlying factors are the more important ones...She said something funny last night. She told me OM is almost exactly like me. Do not know what to make of it. Yeah she does try to pick fights once in a while...I thinnk she does not know how to take me. SHe has told me I have to stop being so nice again. FOr all her walls she still can't help but show that she still loves me at times and usually this is when she gets the most hostile. She did say last night she is not sure if it is over. I told her we can't discuss that until OM is out of the picture. She did say some realistic things which may mean the fog is lifting a little, SHe stated that she doesn't know what she is thinking thinkiong she actually loves OM when she has never spent time with him or what she is thinking getting involved with someone three states away. I didn't say anything to her. I am nothing like OM. I would never break up a marriage and I would never call soemone the way he did.
I will continue to hold my boundaries and to do my 180s. Also I have had the chance to perform a few things out of the 5 love languages just trying to crate an atmosphere of love and forgiveness. She told me she does not understand how someone can be acting the way I am...that she does not deserve it. I think this is more WAW script though...any ideas?
