Upside, You and your h had an extremely good conversation. You did well in listening and not attempting to offer up suggestions on how to fix him. He realizes that he needs to fix himself. There was one little red flag that concerns me....he said that he realized that he wasn't happy alone. He will need to understand that he happiness comes from within and no one can make him happy.
I hope that everything works out for you and he finally gets himself back on track. He's saying all of the right things at this time, but I do hope and pray that he's willing to do the actual work to get it all back on track.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
