Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[ClingingToHope]

I'm torn. I wish I could go back to the day I did move and not do it. At the time, I thought it was the only hope, that the M was not getting any better.

At least it would have forced W to be the one that moved.

But that's water under the bridge. W has gotten more and more used to living on her own. She's been steadily pushing the D forward and last week told the girls we are getting one.

I really though when I did move out in May that she would miss me and this was just a step. Instead it looks like by the time I did leave she was determined to see this through.

The only chance for us is now well into the future. My divorce busting counselor, after hearing our story, said it's likely going to be two years before things to change.

We'll be divorced by then and who knows where I'll be at that point.