Hey Cat, So you ventured out, eh? I'm not a fan of match.com. I found there to be too much deception, overselling and really flaky people there. I was really surprised at how many are shallow, self-centered and emotionally immature or heavily damaged. Then again I am talking the late 30s to mid 40s crowd. Most of us are divorced which means baggage. Sadly, I think most in the age group don't get the emotional help they really need to overcome divorce. So it takes them years to recover and yet they dive right back into dating trying to find something to grab hold of, to find solid ground. I can't blame them, been there, done that.
I have done eharmony in the past and found it at least connected me with women where there is some level of compatibility. My problem had been too many were looking to get married sooner rather than later. I guess that's the need for security that most women supposedly have.
As for my stich, she's silent again which I was expecting. I suspect she'll text me either tomorrow or Tuesday, that's been the pattern. The one thing I need to do is work a bit better at the "as if". That was a failing of mine while trying to save my marriage back in 07. Well we all have to have something we need to work on.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
