It is so hard not to try and just make it understand that our problems are solvable. things change after 20 years - my parents went a similar situation about 12 years ago and after they told the family they saw devastation in our reaction they started counseling and just celebrated 38 years. WHY can't he give us the same shot?
How do I turn my brain off for 5 minutes ? I wake up and it is my first thought.
He is coming today to see the kids and I am going to try my hardest to do a 180..but we still have to talk about finances!! We do not have the option to sell the house either - we bought a house right before the market crashed and are so upside down and I refuse to let his decision effect the kids even more by having to move - this is NOT an option.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1
