She seems willing to be at the same location regardless of the promotion, but W will not commit to still being together or D with joint custody at same location. At one point she even said it might be easier if we were D and just good friends without any of the pressure/stress we have now. In fact at one point she said it might b The big issue for me is this, if I get this job, I leave in Feb and W and kids in June. I can't see that as being good for getting M back. I also fear EA would go full up again.

That right now is my biggest issue that I am struggling with. Any thoughts on that Sandi or others?

Last edited by gutwrenching; 01/24/10 07:30 AM.
M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11