scary and exciting. soon there will be three of us under one roof, don't know what to do with a boy since i have 2 girls. circumcision oh boy.

i totally agree, i can not support bad behavior and choices. he wanted to see d2 today and i said no, have u given me ur work address, schedule, provided me with a routine of consistent visitation times. of course not he's not going to. he's seen d2 maybe 3 =4 times since november and thinks he can just take her when he wants to.

i know my d loves her father but she does not need to see dad 1 month not for another month or who knows when. i strongly believe that is a major harm to her. if i'm wrong, someone please tell me how?

ironically i asked him what was the most important thing in his life, got a long pause like 10 mins, answers back, my kids. wow!


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline