Thought I was done

[MarkG]

I've gone completely dark, it's starting do drive me nuts. The last conversation I had with my WAW was about a week ago about an argument where she wanted to rent movies for her and OM to watch using my video store account but couldn't. The advantage I have on my side is I can afford the D and she can't - there is no joint checking account, we were broke when she left, I saved up and she blew all her money. This is going to be a real fun ride. Anyways, we're still involved in legal matters with the kids where I'm doing pretty well and she isn't. I did have a pending criminal matter, just got word that all charges are dropped which imo is the way it should be. I am afraid of what's going to happen to WAW over her new bad checks... her mail comes to my house and the joint checking account her and OM have is severely overdrawn, although I haven't opened envelopes, just by the number that arrive - almost daily for almost a month now. Since I haven't talked to her I can at least keep myself out of the situation when it comes to blame, or at least I hope so. I think when she realizes the reality of her situation is when she'll come around, but the problem is I won't be her ladder back up. I need to know she's in it for us, not for her benefit regarding kids or money. Hang in there Bill, wait it out, I'll do the same. Make sure to GAL, that's why I've been gone a lot lately, but tonight I haven't had much luck finding people and places to go. Hopefully that's not a common thing.