THanks gals - you're the best coaches I could have!
yes, boundaries are next - scaaaaary! Hey - what do I have to lose? We;re already separated!
Went to a job interview today - after childcare, bridge toll and gas, I'd end up with about $12 per day. Depressing.
Oh well, no mind reading, no worrying about the future.
I'm sorry we're all feeling so shattered and fragile. Time to hug ourselves tight and try our best to move ahead. Yes, at times D sounds ok - I guess it wouldn't be as bad as we think. Lord knows I've been miserable a good part of my M. Trying ot look at this as a potential opportunity to fix what was broken. Trying to not fear that H hates me and will never love me again. Feeling the rejection of the LBS. That's common to us all and I know it isn't true.
