I worked out for over an hour with a break in the middle and got my cleaning done. When WH arrived I still had the music playing and was on my laptop, fresh and sparkly. I jumped up and practically grabbed S out of his arms. He said S would be needing a bottle and a nap so I immediately got it ready while he was in the bathroom. When he came out, I was already feeding S. He said "Oh, I was going to make you a bottle." Then he said "well S was in a pretty good mood all day and he did great!" I said,"good." (picture bored tone of voice) He asked if there was anything I needed before he left and I said "no thanks." Then finally he said his last goodbye and said "well I'll see you tomorrow!" I said "ok, bye!" The reason why I am sharing this fascinating summary (LOL) is because WH tried to do acts of service but I didn't let him AND I was being polite but not too nice or too rude.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004