has your H talked to you about a separation agreement or anything?
Right around when he moved out he talked to a lawyer friend (by chance supposedly) who recommended starting on mediation right away so he wanted to do that. I had to put the brakes on it, saying I wasn't ready. It wouldn't be a good choice for me to negotiate without represention when I am still in shock.
Originally Posted By: trytryagain
says he can't eat, sleep, or focus on work...i said i knew how that felt.
Yeah, my H was in rough shape when he moved out, but for different reasons for me. I was heartbroken and shocked, he was feeling guilty as ashamed for blowing it, yet determined to follow through on his decision.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
