Thanks, iwitw, I think you nailed it here:
Originally Posted By: iwantittowork
So, Stbx Ms G should have to fight hard for the current Mr G. Would you want her back in present WAS form? I don't think so. Nor would you really want back the old Mrs. G either, because that didn't work either.
The three 3 "people" in an R theory/approach is quite good, too.

Thanks.

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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac