I am still being distant and detached when she text or calls.
No......you're not. In fact, you seem to know what she was doing and what was said to her by whom.....yada, yada. Let it go and stop looking at her, stop listening at her, and stop talking to her. Focus on yourself.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
