cool!! glass of wine, haven't had one of those in a long time
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
H - "Did you hear me?" Me - "Yes." H - "No comment?" Me - "Oh, I'm sorry, didn't think it required one."
H - "W, where are you?" Me - "In the kitchen..." H - "Sheesh! It's like magical rooms!"
H - (While at the gym w/the boys, they're going to play bball, and I'm going to walk...) "There's no gym space avail. I guess we need to check the other facility." Me - "OK" H - "We're waiting...." Me - "For?" H - "You, so we can go." Me - "I have my own car, and I'm fine finishing my walking here. Go ahead."
H's VM while I'm walking... "blahblahblah gym space, blahblahblah craziness..."
H's call three min later - "Why didn't you call me back?" Me - "You didn't ask me to." H - "I don't know where the other facility is." Me - "Lights @ blahblah and blahblah." H - "Okaaaaayyyyy." Both boys in background. Daaaaaaaaad, we told you where it is!
I'm getting in the shower now. I got three miles in at the gym, w/the EasyTone shoes on!
Varsity bball game tonight, and S10's team is featured at halftime.
Just for the record, in case anyone wonders WTF I'm doing. I'm not being rude to H. I'm just really trying to not feed his emotional needs, since he's not feeding mine. I'm preparing for a conversation, which I can GUARANTEE he will initiate about my lack of conversation(s) w/him. Two dear friends from here helped me piece this together. And, they didn't even know the others' input!
Comment: This man talkstalkstalks like I've never seen anyone do anymore. I'm the one he talktalktalks to... He nearly followed me into pee, for Gosh sakes! Talktalktalking...
I need more than talktalktalking...
ST - I may even patch in one of YOUR ideas within a week or so! LoL
PS - I'm not being bitchy at all... just not feeding the need
Last edited by mindfull; 01/23/1011:01 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I am sure that the wheels are already turning in his head and that he will be asking what's up very shortly. The perfect time to discuss the meeting of needs. Let us know how it goes.
hey, as long as your not being rude, then changing things up can be okay... just pay attention to what is going on to see if what you are doing is working or not working.
of course you should throw in one of mine! lol
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I've got to say.... he drives me crazy! I think at some point (and I don't think this is that point, just yet), I think he is going to require a direct approach. Either you just attack him, or you just ask him what's up. It sure seems that he wants you there, but he doesn't seem to want YOU. And I don't get it.
lol