Update on the Second Letter:

Sealed it back up last night, wrote: return to sender; and it's in the mail today. Out of my house, out of my life.

But it's not an impossibility that someday I might order something...inappropriate...from a payphone and have it sent to X's office...

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process