addie, nice to see you but I wish you didnt feel you needed to come back here...
I dont know what to say. I think that regarding transparency, I have been doing a bad job as well since I still havent gotten the passwords etc.
How does he respond? What would make you feel at ease? How do you know he pursues her? I think when WAS become LBSs in the extra marital affair, the "dream" stays in their minds for some time. And if he feels inadequate again because of finances, I would guess he is looking for somekind of quick pick-me up remedy. And that would be her. Can he sense your resentment? Resentment is a very powerful destruction machine. I've experienced that. How about "calming down", cooling off inside and then have a heart to heart discussion. Maybe some boundaries? Love K
