Thanks, I paraphrased the letter from a book, Harley's I think.
No, he hasn't been near the house. The mailbox is a mile away, so getting his mail is as close as he has been. I have a golf club handy if he does bring her here! Hee-Hee!
I have not seen him at all since he left. DS13 has received 1 VM from him asking about his new school. DD16 asked him to lunch twice and drove herself. DD18 met him to get some gas money for herself last week. We are out-of-sight-out-of-mind, I guess. I know he is telling himself "They don't have much use for me." to justify his neglect of the kids. His thinking is SOOOO distorted, which I believe is why I am so at peace with him gone. (after the initial trauma of course).
Self Improvement! Well..... I am getting projects done that I had been putting off, and rebuilding relationships with friends that I had let slide in the last year. Baby Steps.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
