He said he is done!!

[Cadet]

I want him to read the DB book with an open mind and see that we are not a lost cause. Is this a mistake ?

Yes it is a mistake. It is R talk and it is pursuing. The book is your secret weapon. Keep it a secret. You e-mailed him the site. I wouldn't have done that but It is done. He has to do the work to get the benefit of the site. You need to read and study. Knowledge is power.

Start with the LRT.

This is the detach link:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

Then you need to look in the mirror and figure out what 180's you can do. And GAL.