Good for you--I wouldn't have known to clean the battery terminals! smile

Thanks for the encouragement on the drain project.

I had a bad night last night, but a better morning. Got up and went for a run with some new running acquaintences.

Then back at the house I started to do more furniture re-arranging and tossing of things.

I moved the bed to another area of the bedroom. It doesn't make sense aesthetically, but I needed to change the karma. I have been mostly sleeping on the couch downstairs. It's comfortable and I'm by the woodstove. But I know it's mostly about avoiding the bedroom, and I have to get back into it.

The bed, of course, is the one that X said--oh, about a whole week after the Bomb--plenty of time for me to be ready to deal with the whole thing, right? Anyhow, he says that he will give me "right of first refusal" on the bed!!

Big of him, no? Like I wouldn't burn it before I let him and OW have it!

Anyhow--I will tackle the drain this week, and maybe do some more furniture rearranging. smile


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process