I have done really well at not contacting him the last few days. In fact I don't return all his phone calls or texts.
I do work full time. I've tried to offer making a budget with him so we can afford for him to get his own apartment. But it would be tight, and he doesn't think it will work. He wants to either sell the house at a loss or see if mortgage company will work with one of us at lowering the payment so that one of us can keep the house. He wants me to keep the house, but I'm not sure if I want too. I told him I needed time to make that kind of decision. He has called the mortgage company, and I guess they are sending us information about that in the mail.
The last few times we have talked about our M (just a few days ago). He said he was done, there was nothing between us, and the ILYBNILWY speech. Not sure if there is OW or not, but I would like to find out, there is a lot of suspicous behaviour to that going on.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
