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I went dark yesterday, and wouldn’t return any of H phone calls or texts.
Good!

Have you read this:
This is the detach link:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

If you want to slow down the process my suggestion is to do the above. Give your H space. At least act like it for him. Stop the calling, texting, e-mails.
Also do you work? Can your H afford two households?

Last edited by OldPilot; 01/23/10 07:38 PM.
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