as we move forward II

[mandyloo]

Forward, believe me there was not even a slight twinge, that being that to me my ex is now a friend and not my lover, it was just like old times, ex seemed more like the man I knew, we were all calm and that was it, all I can say it was all friendly. on another note ex has contacted his old aunt again, albeit whilst he wasnt in wifey company, aunt also commented that the phone call she received from him he sounded like the old nephew she used to know, we will see he could just be popping up for air.

[TRUSTING]

We all wonder if we will get over those "hard felt" feelings regarding our ex's. I know that when I no longer have a twinge for ex, it will be completely over with us and I will be on the fast track of being completely healed from the MLC relationship. Part of me still wants those feelings, part of me does not.

[forward]

ML and Trusting,
Interesting that all three of us report a bit of progress w/X, a little evidence that some growth happened.

Doesn't mean that we would get back together with them...but at least we know we aren't the awful people our X's made us out to be.

[mandyloo]

one wonders, or at least I do. Ex took son out with him and the wifey last night to watch a gig of a band in which one of our youngest friends has joined, I also went out for a couple of ours for something to do sooner than sit in the house, anyhows I knew I needed to be back and actually walked in the house straight after son did, ex phoned to let me know he had dropped him off and he was home safe and sound, I let him know that I was also home and everything was ok, well yet again went into a long friendly chat and spoke to me very nice and for all the time he was driving home, wot I would like to know and I already probably know the answer is why is it that ex can only be freindly and really have these chats either when he is on his own or when hes out somewhere with son, he is just like the old ex that I knew when he speaks to me like this but then when he calls and she is there he is totally different, his aunt as also picked up on this when he calls her. and I have also noticed that this is now the only time he calls or speaks is when he has gotten five minutes away from her. weird that after five years nearly he is still a jeckyl and hyde, although I must say i have seen improvement

[forward]

Well, what that suggests is jealousy on her part ML.

[mandyloo]

always has been and always will be forward, theres nothing I can do about it I am who I am and always have been and always will be

[forward]

Well, it's not your problem if she is jealous, but it is interesting to see her experiencing the results of her actions as well, is it not?

After all, if he cheated with her, maybe he'd cheat ON her. Oh karma karma karma.

[BeingMe]

So true!

[mandyloo]

hope I live to see it happen

[forward]

ML, I think you already have. It ain't raining hearts and flowers over there.