P, please don't beat yourself up over the text! I think it shows that 1) You still have her number and have just chosen to not contact her all of this time and (this next one might be good or bad) 2)she reached out to your D with a gift and that got a reaction from you 3) you have manners (LOL!) now you just go back to not contacting her again. Remember, some people have to stay in contact when doing Plan B because of shared custody so they are able to achieve no contact while doing so. I am only saying this to show you that some contact does not mean you have to start all over or that you ruined your plan.
Last edited by newmama; 01/23/1007:25 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
