Do you need to? Are all your financial needs being met? Can your H support 2 households?
I don't know if I should be seeing a L. H has committed to not leaving me in the lurch financially and he has given me some money -- not clear how long it has to last. Finances are a mess, part of what precipitated this crisis in the first place. I don't think that H can support 2 households, so this is not a sustainable situation.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.