gima, I don't know if she agreed to come to work on our marriage or she just agreed to come.
I'm starting to think that M is about actions, not motivations. Agreeing to MC is a huge action in a positive direction. I'm with other posters that I would be thrilled if my H was willing to do that. It would give me a lot of hope, even if I knew that H had little hope/motivation to work on things. The hope of MC is that it will create new opportunities for resolution and connection.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
