You know, the funny thing is I still default to the belief that since my W "checked out" some time ago, she should not care about what decisions I make for myself - such as the car. Why WOULD she care, unless I was hitting a MLC (one of us at a time please) and bought a Ferrari that we couldn't afford. But even then, there is no more "WE." Legally, I understand we are still M'd. Hence, one (not all) of the reasons for being reasonable in replacing my car. But, it still surprises me she would stick her nose into this decision. I don't expect her to pay for my car any more than she should expect me to pay for hers once the D is done. I am probably making the critical mistake of trying to apply logic to an emotionsal decision by being surprised she still feels it's her place to "advise" me on a decision like the car thing. Does she really think she has a right to involve herself in this when the decision I am making is reasonable and necessary? If there are any of the WAW's out there, I would love to hear your take.
you're starting to let her rent too much space in you're head again. Beware.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
